My crazy life

So it's been awhile since I posted here cuz of how crazy life has been. We had to move and things are just now starting to calm down. Same time we were moving my nana went to the hospital and was flown 3 hours away for heart surgery. She is slowly recovering it has been 3 weeks now since her surgery. She most likely going into a nursing home this weekend, which we are not happy about but there is nothing else that can be done, there isn't anyone that can be with her all the time taking care of her and get her to all her appts. My dad doesn't have the patience and he has to work. My oldest brother has to work. I have 3 kids and can't physically do it (she still isn't walking and I just can't lift her, she is bigger than me). On a plus side though the nursing home she is going to is where my oldest brother works so he will at least be there to make sure she is being treated properly and everything is being done right with her.
My girls are driving me crazy I love them more than anything but they know how to push every button. My oldest is doing ok, I get a break from her when she goes to school but she thinks the world revolves around her and I should just wait on her alone. My 2 year old is my worst right now, I do not know at all what to do with her anymore. She flat out ignores me and does things she knows she isn't supposed to do, she throws tantrums non stop, I am trying different things with her but so far nothing seems to work. My youngest (Mikyla almost 9 months old) has started crawling and is now into everything it's exhausting with moving and trying to unpack things and such.
Well that is all for now gotta run and do some stuff.